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Tuesday, November 10, 2026


We boarded the plane (Tucson to Dallas, Dallas to DC, DC to Athens) on October 6. 
 There was only Matt and I in our row going across the Atlantic Ocean. I did not sleep much.

Mark met us at the train station and it was now October 7. He lives on the third floor of an apartment building, 58 steps. People in Greece do not flush toilet paper, I am not a fan of that. But I survived. We walked all around Athens with Mark showing up his favorite places.

The next day, October 8, was spent doing a lot more walking. That night we met Yorgos for dinner. I knew Yorgos back in 1993-1994 in Tucson and visited him in 1996 in Greece. He visited me in Tucson in 2001.

Yorgos, Matt, Mark, and Homer. 

We went to an interesting art exhibit that night and then had a late meal at the beautiful home of Vasilios and Elias.

Vasilios and Elias.

The next day, October 9, Mark and Yorgos left for Egypt.

We went to the National Archaeological Museum. There are many famous statues and other artifacts there. After a while, very overwhelming. In many ways it is an art museum, you don't get much idea about how people lived in ancient Greece. Most of the large bronze statues have been fished out of the ocean.

Bronze statue, perhaps of Paris holding an apple, and Matt.

They still have some of the frescoes from Santorini, I was surprised since the museum on that island opened a while ago. I wanted to become an archaeologist because of a 1972 National Geographic article about Santorini.

Boxing boys and African antelopes.

Athens is covered in ugly graffiti. But occasionally there are large, beautiful murals.

 

Murals.

On October 10 we went to the Acropolis and saw the Parthenon and the Erechtheion. They have just finished repairing the western pediment and are still working on replacing broken parts elsewhere, finding them among 70,000 catalogued fragments.

Matt and Homer with the Parthenon in the background.

We also went to the Acropolis Museum, which houses the pediment statues and other decorative elements that were not stolen by Elgin. I was surprised and delighted to see a Lego Acropolis.

Lego Acropolis.


On Sunday October 11 we went to the antique market. Lots of interesting things. My favorite was this painting (too big to bring home).

Mustache man.

Next we went to see the American School of Classical Studies, which has many artifacts on display from the digs they have done over the years and saw the well-preserved Temple of Hephaestus.

Three bearded men.

The temple had been turned into a church, which helped with its preservation.

Temple of Hephaestus.

On October 12 we took the ferry to Aegina. We saw a beautiful temple and lots of rural scenery.

Ferry boat to Aegina.

Temple of Aphaia.


On October 13, we took a van tour to Delphi. Our driver was a young archaeology student- it was interesting to talk to him. It threatened to rain so Matt bought umbrellas (a good idea). 

Athens treasury.

The museum had many interesting sculptures. The famous Charioteer bronze statue was buried in an earthquake, so it survived.

Charioteer.

October 14 was a rain day where we stayed indoors. I was also having a cold, no fun.

We did a lot of walking during the trip and sometimes I dragged Matt into the ornate Greek Orthodox churches just to stop for a moment or two. Icons, statues, incense burners, chandeliers, mostly covered in soot. Very beautiful.

Church interior.

There are well-fed stray cats everywhere. Some of them were very friendly.

Matt and cat.

On October 15 we purchased tickets and got in a bus to go see the Corinth canal, the Treasury of Atreus, Mycenae, and Nafplion.

Tholos tomb, Treasury of Atreus.

Lion Gate at Mycenae.

We then went to Epidaurus and saw the massive theater and the Asclepius hospital complex.


Matt at the Epidaurus Theater.

October 16 was spent wandering around Athens. The next day Mark and Yorgos got back and we went to another art opening, the theme was black things so I wore my cowboy shirt.


Homer and Elias.

We met an interesting trans woman who is a well known artist.

Yorgos, Matt, and Constantina.

October 18 was spent wandering around Athens with Mark.

On October 19, Mark, Matt, and I took the ferry to Hydra (pronounded He-dra). Lots of walking and beautiful scenery. This is a no-vessel island (except garbage trucks).

Mark at the pizza restaurant on Hydra.

After the ferry ride home we stopped in JUMBO, a Greek department store.


Jumbo.

Although it was mid-October they already had huge amounts of Christmas stuff for sale.


Inside Jumbo.

After dinner, we stopped at a top floor bar for a view of the Parthenon at night.


Parthenon all lit up.

The next day, October 20, was souvenir hunting.

On October 21 we flew back and there was no one in the middle seat on the Athens flight. SO NICE. It took us 30 hours to get home.

Matt is excited to eat.

It was a lovely time.

Wednesday, October 28, 2026

Catching up. Damien came to town from Australia and Matt and I took him out to dinner twice. It was nice to catch up with him. 


Damien and Homer

I got an award from the Arizona Historical Society and gave talks at two conferences. October through December are busy months for me. I taught two floral crown workshops and tomorrow I am teaching two more at the National Jane Austen conference.

Started a new project- nothing exciting yet.

Next post will be about our Greek trip.


Tuesday, September 08, 2026

My grandfather, Harold Philip Feiger, was born on 9 September 1904. He would be 122 years old today. These are my memories of him.

Grandpa Feiger at the right, he spent the late 1920s and early 1930s stringing telephone wire throughout northern Michigan.

The year I was five I did not go to kindergarten. I think my mother thought I was too small and maybe she wanted to have me around. She would later say it was the funnest year. Anyways, one day Grandpa and I went to the Hostess Day Old store and bought an entire bag of raspberry twinkies, which were then placed in the huge chest freezer in the basement. Everyday I would run next door, past the grape vines and the purple martin house, and go to Grandpa and Grandma's house. I was sent downstairs to get a package of Twinkies and Grandpa would eat one and I would eat one. He had given me and my brother leather wallet kits for Christmas and I would watch Grandpa as he assembled them.

Grandpa at left, he was a hunter and fisherman. I remember the many decoys he had.

One time he took me fishing at their cabin on Lake Ann. I do not remember if any fish were caught. I well remember seeing my grandpa chop the head off a chicken and the hen run away headless. I screamed. I also screamed when I went over to their house and in the kitchen sink was a bunch of frog legs, minus the rest of their bodies. They were wiggling.

Grandpa and Grandma, circa 1930. His nickname was Slim.

Grandpa had a bee hive and I helped spin the honey off of the combs in a metal spinning device in his basement. He also made homemade wine, which was illegal in Michigan at that time. I watched as Grandma sucked on the hose to siphon the wine out of the glass jar into bottles. I still have a bottle from the last year he made wine (1971).

The house on North Long Lake Road under construction.

Grandpa was a Renaissance man and could do anything. He got a moose hide from somewhere and I would watch as he pulled it out of a soaking barrel and removed the hair and tissue. He tanned the hide, cut into strips, and wove in on the frames to made snowshoes, bending wood to make the frame, bolting the end with a copper bolt and rivet. He also made a little pony wagon for Babe.

Grandma and Grandpa at their cabin with his snowshoes.

When I was five my older brother Lee taught me to play with matches and I did so inside my sister's playhouse. A match fell on an old fabric-covered piano stool and it burst into the flames. The fire spread instantly and the whole interior was burning. I ran inside the house and told my mother that robbers had set the playhouse on fire. She put it out with a garden hose and then sent me next door for a spanking, which Grandpa forgot to do.

Charley Harris, ??, Ruth (Case) Harris, Grandma, and Grandpa in the dining room area of their house. 

Grandpa and Grandma had two dogs. Daisy was a black and white collie who lived in the house. Dee-dee was a beagle who lived in a doghouse down by the black walnut trees. Apparently I named her because I could not pronounce Daisy and thought both dogs should have the same name.

Grandpa and Daisy.

Grandpa and Uncle Ray made a toy barn for me and my brother, we probably got that in either 1970 or 1971. My brother still has it.

The toy barn.

Mrs Overman gave my brother some rabbits and we were told we had to separate the males from the females to prevent babies. We asked Grandpa and he told us that male rabbits had longer ears. So we put the long-eared rabbit in a separate cage and in a few weeks little baby bunnies appeared.

Lee, Grandpa, and Elizabeth, in the living room circa 1964.

Grandpa had a large teepee that he put up near the upper garden. We used to look playing in it.


Grandpa, Grandma, little Debbie, and Daisy, circa 1970.

Grandpa was a chain smoker. He tried to quit, but couldn't. He had meat at every meal, that was what Grandma learned was healthy when she went to high school in the late 1920s. In April 1972 he had a heart attack and an ambulance came and took him away. He had already had a heart attack but didn't tell anyone, he was apparently afraid of doctors. He was at the hospital for a few days and one night as we were eating hotdogs Uncle Fred came to the door and said to my mother, "Carolyn, he's gone." I can still hear that. My brother Lee and I were not allowed to go to the funeral. We went next door where Aunt Judy was, and cleaned Grandma's house. 


My brother Lee, Grandpa, and me (Homer), circa 1965 or 1966.

I have often wondered what would have happened if he had lived longer, would all of the horrible things that happened been prevented?

Harold Philip Feiger, 1904-1972.



Tuesday, September 01, 2026

We flew to Michigan to visit family. Stayed at a cute BnB (2nd story of a house) near Lake Ann, a village my Ransom ancestors lived near in the 1860s-1880s. Elijah Leland Ransom and his brother Benjamin Samuel Ransom moved north from Branch County, Michigan around 1864 or 1866. They purchased a grist mill, where grain was ground, and later added the ability to saw timber. There are the remnants of two dams and you can still see timbers from the mill in Ransom Creek. 

The Grand Traverse Regional Land Conservancy purchased the mill and dam site for the Ransom Lake Natural Area. There is a trail around Ransom Lake and Matt and I walked it the first night we were there.

Homer and Matt.

We spent a lot of time visiting with my family. Matt loves Lee's Amish farm, with all the animals.
Matt holding Tina, with Jean and Ginger in the background.

I took the family to Olive Garden for supper. Matt is astounded at how quickly members of my family eat. Amish brother Lee is taking the photo.

Elizabeth, Jeff, Matt, Susan, Homer, and Aunt Harriet.

I took Matt north and drove across the Mackinaw Bridge. Matt does not like bridges. We went to a diner (Clyde's) and I watched as they fried my grilled cheese in a puddle of hamburger juice. I did eat it. Then we drove back across the bridge. Had to drive on the grill, Matt does like bridges. 

Then we went to Fort Michilimackinac. A partially reconstructed 1700s French and then British military fort. There were archaeologists working on a cellar and I chatted with two of them. For the most part, Matt did not care for the interesting artifacts and room exhibits on display. I enjoyed the experience, I was last there in 1987.

Matt is happy to leave the fort, Mackinaw Bridge is background.

The weather was lovely in Michigan- 70s and maybe into the 80s. Lots of fresh produce, we purchased things at Lee's Amish produce store he works at. 

And back in Arizona the weather has been horribly hot. I was out visiting a site last week and this barrel cactus was blooming.

Barrel cactus.

I was also out for a few days digging Early Agricultural Period pits. One morning a nice large wolf spider visited and I put him in a safe place.

Wolf spider.

And then some bad things happened. Dolly Parton died. I remember watching her syndicated show in the early 1970s, Dolly on a swing singing "Love is like a butterfly, as soft and silky as a sigh..." in the show's intro. She was perhaps the best good person I have ever shared the earth with.

Then little Rowan dog got into a car and the door got shut and he died in the hear. Just horrible. Doug was heartbroken. I had to dig his grave and bury him, sobbing. 

And then yesterday morning very early two young men were murdered outside the Venture Inn, one of two gay bars here in Tucson. The maniac who did it had a list of LGBTQ+ businesses to target. I had not met either men, but had followed Cameron on Instagram. He was a courageous public journalist, covering the protests in support of Gaza and against the stupid AI center being built here in town. What a horrible world we live in where evil people have access to firearms.

 


Friday, August 07, 2026

Well my friend Craig committed suicide on Thursday July 30. I found out the following Sunday. He was a good friend for a few years. I was in love with him and wanted to be his partner. That didn't happen, but we continued to be friends. I last saw him in person during my 2017 road trip, when I stayed with him and Chris in Denver.

We had some really good times together, this picture was taken on a road trip to New Mexico. We traded messages four days before he died and he said that this was a special time.


Craig.

I don't know why he did what he did. I wish he hadn't. We had talked about me coming to visit with Matt next summer. I am sad but also angry, I keep asking myself "Why did he do it?" I don't know if he knew how much he meant to me.

 


Thursday, July 30, 2026

It is monsoon season. We have had some goods rains, but need more.

Clyde kitty got in a fight and had an infected neck. He lost some weight. Likes to be inside when it is so hot.

Clyde.

Smokey is not friendly with Matt (and Puff Jr. is mostly the same). Every night she comes and sleeps near me though.

Matt and Smokey the Bear.

Matt and I went to a Gay West event at Old Tucson. I called Patrick and he drove us there. We met up with Paul and David. Had a good time.

Homer, Patrick, and David.

New murals popping up everywhere downtown. This one is across the street from the Presidio Museum. If features Native and Mexican women.

Homer and Matt.

The Brandylion is a fun bar on the Presidio Museum property. I dragged Matt there for a date night and he had a good time.

Brandylion bar.

One Saturday we went to the Habitat for Humanity store and I saw this pie safe ($249). Have always wanted one (Mother have hers to Uncle David, wonder what happened to it). Went back and bought it. The former tv stand ended up in the alley and soon disappeared. Matt helped load it into his truck and carry it into the house.

Pie safe.

July 4th Matt, Caleb, and I went to a pool party way up in Oro Valley. We had a good time and I get to pet some donkeys. The fireworks were horrible that night but I gave Ruby half a benadryl and she didn't get so frightened.

Caleb and Homer.

Matt's nephew Max came to town with his girlfriend from Louisiana. Scouting out the town because he is thinking about going to University of Arizona for graduate degree. We had dinner at El Torrero. The cauliflower tacos are delicious and messy.

Max and Matt.

So went to the Girl's Estate Store on Wilmot on a Sunday. Not expecting to see much. A girl working there pushed out a cart and I spotted a bag of Lego on the bottom shelf. I grabbed it, paid $17. The bag was filled with sets from 1989-1991, Pirate and Castle themed. I was able to put together four sets. The one sells for $180 and the others total another couple hundred. That was fun.

Lego sets in the pie safe.

 Going to Michigan August 12 to 18. I hope it is cooler there, the heat is miserable right now here (high this week expected to be 111).


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